Perkahwinan: Bukan mudah nak lepaskan...

Semua ibu bapa mahukan yang terbaik untuk anak mereka terutamanya untuk anak perempuan mereka ataupun anak dara yang telah mereka pelihara sejak dari kecil. Anak lelaki pula bagi mereka sudah cukup besar untuk buat keputusan berbanding dgn anak perempuan. Oleh sebab itu, dlm banyak2 perkara tambah2 bila bercakap tentang perkahwinan, ibu bapa lebih mementingkan hal anak perempuan. Ini kerana, kelak mereka akan berjauhan dengan anak perempuan yang mana akan ikut suami bila dah kahwin..

Jujur cakap, berjauhan dengan parents untuk menuntut ilmu tak akan sama dengan berjauhan dengan parents untuk ikut suami. Biarpun aku masih tiada pengalaman tentang ini, tapi hasil soal selidik dan pemerhatian aku, itulah kenyataannya. Nak tau kenapa? Sebabnya saat kita melangkah keluar dari rumah, kita telah pun memegang title sebagai isteri dan masa tu kita wajib taat pada suami kita dan saat tu jugak syurga kita telah beralih dari bawah tapak kaki ibu ke bawah tapak kaki suami. Berbanding dengan anak lelaki, mereka akan menjadi ketua keluarga kelak dan memimpin isteri. Namun begitu, anak lelaki tidak boleh melebihkan isteri dari ibu sendiri dalam apa jua keadaan sekalipun sebabnya ia merupakan tuntutan dalam Islam.

Jadi,berbalik kepada tajuk asal, ibu bapa khususnya ibu akan berasa sedih dan sayu bila nak lepaskan anak mereka ke tangan orang lain. Normal kita lihat bila majlis akad nikah, di sisi pengantin perempuan mesti akan ada si ibu (bagi yang ada) dan bila pengantin lelaki dah melafazkan akad nikah, air mata ibu akan menitiskan dengan sendirinyaa tanpa dipinta. Begitu juga dengan si ayah, namun si ayah ni kadang2 pandai menyembunyikan air muka mereka. Betul.. Hihi.

Disebabkan ini juga kaum ibu akan lebih memandang serius bila anak2 perempuan ambik keputusan nak dirikan rumah tangga. Sampai ada tu parents nakkan bakal menantu yang kaya raya supaya hidup anak mereka senang lenang. Tak kurang juga yang mahukan bakal menantu ada pendidikan yang tinggi serta kerja yang bagus. Well, bagi aku cukuplah seseorang itu ada pendidikan agama yang cukup dan mampu menanggung keluarga yang dibina kelak. Oh, rasanya macam dah over pulak bercerita pasal kahwin ni. Dah2, nanti aku sambung lagi. Sapa yang nak baca lagi, tunggu next next entry laa. Haha

Babai.. :)

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Their dream of becoming a pharmacist remains distant

PETALING JAYA: After six years of studying, Sara had been eager to fulfil her life-long dream of becoming a pharmacist.

But that dream remains distant — she has been unemployed over the past eight months.

She is among possibly hundreds of other pharmacy graduates in the same boat.

A graduate of Indonesia’s Universitas Gadjah Mada, Sara (not her real name) said her 11 coursemates had also applied for their one-year public hospital training stint last August.

In a quandary: Many pharmacy graduates have applied for a training stint in public hospitals but have yet to get placement.

“We were told by our seniors that it would only take about a month to get a placement in a public hospital.

“I was called for an interview at the end of August and I am still waiting for news,” she told The Star.

Each time she called the Public Service Department (PSD), she was told that the delay was due to the review of the New Public Service Remuneration Scheme (SBPA).

“While waiting, I worked at a private pharmacy to gain some experience. But I resigned after just one month when told that the offer letter would be issued anytime,’’ she lamented.

John, another pharmacy graduate, said he had been trying to get a placement for his one-year training after graduating from Glasgow’s University of Strathclyde last July.

Like Sara, he applied for his training in August and thought that he would land a placement in a public hospital by November.

“Most companies would want their part-timers to commit for at least two months. If I had known that I would be unemployed for more than six months, I would have definitely found a job,” he said, adding that up to 40 graduates from his batch had also not got placements.

“When we studied to become pharmacists, people were always saying that there was a shortage in the field. But it has been crazy just waiting for a placement,’’ he added.

p/s: this is the other article that related with the previous entry. from this article, minister made that article. =)

Source: 

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp file=%2F2012%2F2%2F13%2Fnation%2F10726574&sec=nation

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Pharmacy grads will have jobs, minister says

KUALA LUMPUR, Feb 14 — Datuk Seri Liow Tiong Lai assured unemployed pharmacy graduates today they will have jobs soon.

The health minister blamed the delay of a salary scale for civil servants under a revised government remuneration scheme for the lack of jobs.

“Lately, the bit of delay of employing our pharmacists into our system is due to the new SBPA that has been deferred,” Liow (picture) said.

He assured the new pharmacists they will be recruited as soon as possible.

Liow said the government was working to bridge the public-private healthcare divide and will soon be able to offer more jobs to new pharmacy graduates.

“To say that we don’t have enough positions to cater is not true,” Liow said, responding to recent reports highlighting pharmacy graduates who claim they have been jobless as far back as eight months ago.

“In fact we are liberalising our policy, we would like to allow our pharmacists to work either in government or private (sectors),” he told reporters following the launch of a pharmaceutical industry fact here.

He said his ministry had even liberated attachment conditions for fresh graduates and was taking in more pharmacy graduates annually.

“We are engaging and we are employing more pharmacists from year to year,” the minister said.

Liow said that previously, pharmacy graduates were required to train a year and practise another three years at public hospitals in order to obtain their practising licence. The scheme was known as one-plus-three.

However, in October last year, the three-year attachment condition was slashed to only one year, meaning pharmacy graduates only needed to train a year and practise another year to win their practising licence.

The MCA deputy president also pointed out that pharmacists were no longer limited to train in public hospitals and clinics.

“We allow pharmacists to have compulsory training in private training, not only in government sector,” he said.

“They are allowed training in pharmaceutical companies. So this is the kind of flexibility that we have introduced,” he added.

An oversupply of potential recruits coupled with a shortage of pharmacy-related positions were initially blamed for the lack of vacancies leading to disgruntlement among the new pharmacy graduates, according to media reports.

However, graduates now believe their applications for placement were unsuccessful due to the review of the New Public Service Remuneration Scheme (SBPA), which Liow acknowledged today.

He said, “It is due to the salary scale that is under review now, but we will continue to engage them at the old salary scale because the SBPA is under review now.”

p/s: ada sebab kenapa statement ni dikeluarkan. nanti Alyaa akan post artikel lain yang berkaitan dengan ini. =P

Source: http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/pharmacy-grads-will-have-jobs-minister-says/

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